Tara Fishler

TARA FISHLER, is the founder and CEO of Customized Training Solutions, established in 2003. Through her company and work with non-profits, she has taught trauma-informed/resilience-based conflict resolution and related skills to thousands of adults and students in schools and organizations. Currently, she is the Statewide Peer Mediation Program Coordinator for the New York State Unified Court System. Tara is a facilitator, circle-keeper, strategic planning expert, mediator, lemon law arbitrator, and passionate defender of individuals with special needs.

As an Appropriate Dispute Resolution (ADR) leader, Tara has served on the executive committees of ACR (Association for Conflict Resolution), ACR-GNY (Greater New York chapter), and NYSDRA (New York State Dispute Resolution Association), and is currently Secretary of NAMI Westchester (National Alliance for Mental Illness). 

She has authored articles on bullying and published her memoir, “Up-Rooted: Climbing Through Family Chaos,” through WoodHall Press, which details her life as the divorced mother of four children, including two daughters adopted from Ukraine, and the divorce process through both the courts and mediation as a conflict resolution professional.  She is currently writing a children’s book on bullying called, “Spaghetti Street”.

Leiat Klarfeld

Leiat Klarfeld joined Customized Training Solutions in 2012, as the Chief Operations Officer, working in partnership with Tara Fishler to develop and implement peer mediation trainings among other conflict resolution workshops. Ms. Klarfeld is a peer mediation trainer with strong mediation, negotiation and facilitation skills. She is a currently a school counselor in Westchester, NY. Previously, she worked with “Community Mediation Services in Queens, NY, where she administered their parent-child and court referred mediation programs.

Ms. Klarfeld has trained peer mediators from elementary through high school. She mediates community, inter-personal, family, special education and parent-child disputes. As the Parent-Child Mediation Specialist at Community Mediation Services, Ms. Klarfeld developed and administered an on-site mediation clinic at a large Queens High School to assist middle and high school students to address conflict in positive ways. Through her work abroad, Ms. Klarfeld brings a richness of cultural awareness and sensitivity to her work. Ms. Klarfeld creates safe, supportive and non-judgmental environments for people to learn conflict resolution skills and address conflict.

Additionally, Ms. Klarfeld has a Master’s in Public Health, a Master’s in School Counseling, and has experience developing international public health related programs.

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“You’re in your element. You’re a natural motivational speaker!”

Rosemary from WW

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“You have it all! Your experience is worth a lot.”

Priscilla Prutzman

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“You were a natural for our ‘special projects.’ I knew I could completely trust you to bring professionalism, strong organization, shrewd insight, social and emotional competence, and top-level facilitation to the most challenging of situations.”

Tom Roderick

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“Thanks so much for coming to facilitate at my son’s school.  The reports I’ve gotten say that you were great, and that you really helped the conversation move to a place of resolution.”

Glenn Dornfeld

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“This was a great course. Tara is an incredible instructor.”

Peace Restored participant

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“I just want to express my thanks to Tara for the huge effort in pulling this report together- and over the holidays. She’s done an amazing job on this and throughout the project. Tara – we truly appreciate you! Everyone on the team is amazing-Jeff, Michael, Pris- but Tara is the engine and the conscience and the glue.”

Tricia Jones

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“Your journey through separation and divorce, and now co-parenting through the pandemic is an inspiration -and instructive… You have a gift as a storyteller.”

Michael Lang

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“Charlie took my hand, gave me a hug and said, ‘I love you.’ Another little girl said, ‘I’m so happy to see you again,’, even though I wasn’t in their class today. The Spanish teacher, who I coached, called Dylan over because he drew the Duck Rabbit in her class. He told me he wanted his parents to buy him the book.

I hope to continue to impact people of all ages in this way.”

Long Island School for the Gifted, 1st Grade Teacher

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“With how you communicated in that article, I don’t think you will be looking for work long, at least I hope not. You came across as very experienced and good at what you do. I had no idea the article would go in that direction yet your responses dictated it. I liked it.”

Michael Toeble, Author at Communication Intelligence

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“To me, you are an unsung hero.”

Nancy Flatters, retired Judge, Canada, ACR

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“I also want to thank you. My time working with you all has had a profound impact on me both professionally and personally.”

Christina Feal, Transition Specialist, Hendrick Hudson School, PM Program

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“Tara Fishler has long been one of the nation’s leading mediators—you can learn so much from her”

Linda Emad, NAMI Conference

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“Tara Fishler has long been one of the nation’s leading mediators—you can learn so much from her.”

Woody Mosten

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“I will use the skills at work and personally.”

Teacher at L.F. Jackson

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“We learned some great strategies and skills for solving conflicts.”

Participant, Westchester

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“Tara Fishler was wonderful, patient, understanding, knowledgeable and a delight to meet! Thanks.

3rd grade teacher, Ardsley


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